That said, I feel like everyone who reported this should have dug a little deeper. The original posts by citizenthrowawayx had a unsettling tone that should have alerted us that these posts were just a glimpse of something much larger. For example:
I take no pleasure in this at all but I had no choice. Let's just say I don't appreciate people lying about me in court and filing false police reports. What you see here is just the tip of the iceberg.Reading that it should be obvious that this whole outing was not part of a simple workplace dispute. That comment, in addition to others made me suspect that this may have been part of a domestic dispute. I had even planned on going to the circuit court to look for records like a real journalist, but I guess I don't have to now. Now I just feel a little dirty for having helped propagate a dirty, desperate attack against someone's character.
The fraud is not my main issue although it certainly motivated me because I don't want to lose my job for failing to report it. My identity is already known anyway and I don't care at this point. I'm her ex-husband, Dan.Anyway, if you would like to read the whole thing yourself, you can read it all here.
My real problem is that she lied about me in court and coached our son's testimony to get my custody terminated. So I'm trying to get custody of my son back. In case you don't know how the family court system works, what happens is when a woman wants to go in and lie about you and accuse you of abuse, they will just admit all her hearsay statements as evidence without any physical evidence of abuse, and terminate your custody without granting you a jury trial.
So basically, I now have to prove to a prejudiced court that she lied about me, which can be very difficult, so I'm having to compile all documented instances of this occurring. This is one of those instances. It's not entirely related but still speaks to the overall problem of her willingness to lie to achieve her goals.
It doesn't seem fair for me to accuse her publicly and keep my own identity a secret, and I stand by my statements. So now you know my original motivation for poking my nose in her business (which is also the business of every taxpayer and student who pays her salary). Aside from the issue of lying, the fact that she's well funded by this income means she will have that much more legal ammo with which to continue her endless stream of legal actions and false accusations against me.
You ever hear the expression "you may beat the rap, but you won't beat the ride?" She's nearly bankrupted me with legal expenses, and frankly i've shot myself in the foot by doing this because my child support payments will increase since she's lost her job. But ultimately my duty is to get custody of my son back who I only see now whenever Jordan deems it appropriate.
So Jordan, if you're reading this, you know there is plenty more where this came from and I'm telling you this is just the beginning. I told you I was going to publicly humiliate you for lying about me and I meant it. I hope you learned a lesson and come clean because next time around may not be so easy. My guess is that you will start looking for ways to get revenge instead.
I've been thinking about that police report you filed against me and I realized, if they had taken your accusations seriously I could have been charged with attempted murder. Good thing you recanted your own statement.
If you do the right thing and go to the court and admit you "exaggerated" you can salvage some of your dignity, our son can have a dad again, and I will be able to drop this whole thing. I really do not want to spend my energy on this stuff but I will not stop until I have half legal and physical custody of my son again. And most importantly, my son has always said he wants things to go back to how they were before. If a kid were abused or in an overly punitive environment he would definitely not make these kind of statements. There is plenty of proof of this, some of which I've been forbidden by the court to publish.
Well there, now I've really opened a can of worms. But I'm willing to expose my life to public scrutiny for the sake of my son. I'm not perfect but sure as hell am not abusive and I do believe I will prevail in this matter eventually. It's just a matter of how much more time and money it will take to defend against her slanderous lies. I chose to make a kid with her. Jordan is a very intelligent woman, and she has great genes. Lying is learned behavior. I love our son dearly and I think she does too. As nasty as this has gotten, I am still willing to put this behind us for the sake of our son, but not until my custody is restored.